anonymous said on May 24, 2017
Loser nerdy types trying to act hip, with an embarrassingly childish snobby attitude, screening a boring, tedious film falsely advertised as grindhouse, when it was nothing more than a cheap ripoff of Rob Zombie – minus Rob Zombie's talent and wit. Don't bother.
dead inside said on May 27, 2017
I'm so tired. So, so tired. I'm done with everyone's bullshit and fake caring, all their lies and spectating. It feels like no one cares, and it wouldn't make a difference if I died. I'm dead inside, no one cares, I feel like dying and I don't even know why. I want to explain it but I don't know how and at this rate I don't think I can, I may just die before I finally vent it all. I'm so worthless and I feel- I KNOW I'm nothing in such a big world and nothing would make a difference, and my existence is just futile and everything is for naught.
never PC said on May 27, 2017
I'm 100 percent fed up with liberal, fanatical, politically correct bullies viciously trying to dominate and bully everyone, trying to force everyone to be PC. These irrational social justice warriors are less interested in justice than they are in telling everyone what to do, what to say and how to say it, what to eat, what music to listen to, what to read, what to think. In other word, PC people are brutal control freaks. I will not be dictated to. I will never listen to condescending lectures by arrogantly pontificating SJWs. No one tells me what to say or how to say it, no one tells me what to think, and no one sure as hell tells me how to live my life. PC jerks need to grow up and get a life.
anonymous said on May 29, 2017
These politically correct fanatics are bullies. They're not so much interested in justice as they are in bossing everyone around – don't do this, don't say that, say it this way instead, etc. Now these PC bullies are saying it's sinful to eat food, look at art, or listen to music by non-white people. Oh, come on! I don't know which is worse – these PC control freaks telling everyone what to do, or their neurotic, anal-retentive, pedantic nit-picking. PC bullies need to grow up and get a life.
frustratedmom said on May 31, 2017
I need help. I don't have anybody around to help me. Everybody is criticizing me. I am a first time mom and I don't really have any idea about babies but I do try my best to make ends meet but I'm human. I get tired as well and at times I blow at my baby which I know is not right. I am trying my best to hold my temper. It's difficult to be alone. With the constant crying and all, I'm really tired. I get jealous with other moms thinking how were they able to pull everything together doing the laundry, washing dishes, cooking food, etc. I just need to let out all my frustrations and all. I need to vent out all these negative energies for the sake of my baby. 🙁
Totoro said on June 2, 2017
I know the feeling!!!!! I still can't figure out how moms do it all. I was told to nap when the baby naps, but that's the only time you can get anything done. So either the house looks like crap and you're exhausted, or you get a nap and feel slightly less exhausted. My son's dad is in the picture, and I still feel alone. So you're not alone! And I get aggravated with my son and blow off steam, but it's ok. Your best bet is when you feel like you're losing it, put your baby in a safe place (crib, play pin, etc.) and let your baby cry and walk away for a minute. Go yell into a pillow or hit the pillow or watch a funny video for a minute. It's easy to go crazy when you're doing it alone. The mom's I've seen with the houses clean and caught up are the ones who give their kids to someone for a few hours all the time. I know it's hard now, but eventually your baby will become more independent and life will be a little easier. And people will tell you how to parent and you're never doing anything right. Just ignore them. Also, have you checked with your doctor about the constant crying? I had colic and cried for weeks as a baby and my son was hurting all the time from reflux and gas and a formula change helped him some. I hope this at least makes you feel better and know that you're not the only frustrated mom 🙂
frustratedmom said on June 8, 2017
He's experiencing separation anxiety. He hates it when he loses sight of me or me just being inches away from him. Thank you for all the advice. I try to read a lot about how to manage a crying baby and try to engage my husband in taking care of the baby. Things are getting a bit lighter now. I just carry him around anywhere I go. So, we shower together, eat together, almost do everything together. Thanks to carriers. By the way, he's breastfed. He hates formula XD. Also, watching the movie titled Bad Moms really helped me. Thank you thank you very much. I appreciate both of your replies 🙂
Bill said on June 3, 2017
Being a parent is not easy. Babies do not come with manuals. My advice as father of 6, is just keep doing your best. Your human, so when you feel like blowing up at your baby, don't. Step away, put baby in the crib and get some air. Baby also picks up on your stress. There are people who can help, don't be afraid to reach out. Also, remember everyone is a critic, ignore the criticism.
Flaminhotcheetopapi said on May 31, 2017
I AM MOTHERFUCKING PISSEDDD. AT EVERYONE. ALL MY TEACHERS ARE DICKS. THIS COUNTRY IS RUN BT A FUCKING DUMBASS. WTF IS A COVFEFE JUST FUCK ALL THIS SHIT AT THIS POINT. AND I CANT EVERN GET RID OF MY STRESS BECAUSE I HAVE NO HOES AND I CANT DECIDE IF I WANNA FUCK THIS NIGGA. MY LIFE IS A MESS BUT ITS WHATEVER BECAUSE 3 MORE DAYS AND IM FINISHED ??????????
anonymous lady said on June 4, 2017
What's with these stupid-looking lace shorts intended for men? I think it looks stupid and extremely foolish.
ladybird91 said on June 5, 2017
I'm 25 and my older cousin who is 28 fell out. She kept squeezing my face hard when she came to my house and I didn't like it. She asked me if it annoyed me and I told her yeah but she didn't apologise and just left. I felt disrespected and phoned her to tell it was bothering me and asked her to stop doing it. She talked to me with an attitude and said "Fine! I won't show you any affection." I was expecting a simple apology but didn't get it. We never talked since then. Now my dad says she said she apologised but I haven't even talked to her so I don't know if my dads lying or she's lying. She is getting married soon and I don't know if she wants me at her wedding or not. I might talk to my dad about it this weekend and say if she does want to apologise she can come to my house or phone me but if she doesn't really want to then that's up to her but I'm not going to a wedding where I feel unwelcome. She needs to talk to me, I don't need people passing on messages and confusing the matter further. Anyone have any advice?
Disgusted said on June 6, 2017
I just had someone tell me that if they drive someone to suicide, "their actions are not my responsibility."
I think I know why suicide rates are on the rise. And I know, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that this person is going to get someone killed one day.
no more PC said on June 7, 2017
There's nothing worse, nothing more tyrannical than political correctness. To be PC is to be a domineering bully, always bossing other people around, always telling other people what to do and what to say.
Stupid said on June 7, 2017
alittle bit more than 2 weeks ago somebody i could have considered one of my best friends if not my best friend said she never wanted to speak with me again. Ever since that day i have obsessed about this person and it feels like a piece of my identity is gone. i can't stop thinking about her and it kills me. anyways this friend of mine used to talk to me every single day for the past 4-5 years and i thought we were getting more close. but i guess i was wrong. i don't know what to do with myself anymore. i can't conentrate on school and i can barely manage to feed myself. all i want to do is lay in my bed and cry. this person was one of very few friends that i could be completely honest with.
Now i've started to get thoughts about how alot of what she had told me probably was lies and how she never really showed me any weakness when i showed her mine. (she did show me some sort of weakness, but nothing major). Anyways she never complained about those things and she often vented to me about her life and it wasn't like she was infuriated by how i acted towards her. The reason why she never wanted to speak with me, was because i found her artist name out. Even though we shared alot of intimate details about eachother i guess me finding out her pen name was over the line… I wish i never would have confronted her with it, but i felt like i would have decieved her if i hadn't. I'm just very sad to loose this very special friend of mine. After she said she never wanted to speak to me again, i tried contacting her and she did reply but it only made everything worse and i hate myself for it and i feel disgusted by myself for being so persistant. i just wanted to talk things over with her, but she wouldn't let me…
I wish i could forget her existance. or rather i wish i could meet her again. and i wish she would atleast have said goodbye one last time instead of just blocking me and shutting me out of her life completely. there is just so many things that reminds me of her since we had a lot of common interests…
nothing said on June 7, 2017
My mom literally never lets me talk about ANYTHING without scrutinizing me or just outright ignoring me. talk about politics: your not educated (even though I know so much more about politics than her) or I'm just being too judgemental. Try to talk about school: you're being judgemental or you just need to work harder (even though i already work my ass off) Try to talk about my interests: just doesn't listen at all. ever. Try talking about stuff I think is cool: outright ignores me and says all i talk about is money ( HOW THE HELL I AM SUPPOSE TO TALK TOO YOU ABOUT ANYTHING HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF I JUST DIDNT LISTEN TOO YOU WHEN YOU TALKED ABOUT YOUR BOYFRIEND OR HOW DRUNK YOU GOT AT THAT PARTY LAST NIGHT WHEN I HAD TOO STAY HOME. ALONE.
never PC said on June 8, 2017
These politically correct jerks have no soul. PC social justice warriors (SJWs) have never fallen in love. They don't even love their own children. Politically correct people are bullies who want to dominate other people. PC people are creepy control freaks. Instead of emotions and a soul, politically correct types are cold, with no love and no emotions. They don't know anything about love, and PC control freaks don't even love their own kids.
anonymous said on June 9, 2017
I'll never understand the loony contradictions of politically correct, social justice warrior liberals, progressives, and liberal feminists regarding crime. On the one hand, they want rapists to be locked up – which is something everyone agrees with – but on the other hand, they say they want all criminals to be released from prison. That's insane and irrational. But then, that's to be expected from liberals; liberals have this creepy, bizarre admiration for violent criminals.
You'd have to be a pretentious, pompous idiot to use stupid, made-up words like "cis".
Adam said on June 13, 2017
I have been struggling with depression for 3 1/2 years now. I have attempted suicide twice, have been in and out with self harm addiction, and have been on meds for the last 3 months. I have been trying to get better but recently my depression has been getting worse. I am having strong urges to self-harm and have been feeling super depressed even with my medication and I feel as if i am letting everyone down. I tried so hard to get happier and all the hospital trips cost my parents lots of money and i don't want that all to go to waste. I don't even know why I feel so depressed or what is triggering me I just do. Some of my "friends" are being major bitches and I don't want to hang with them but I have no one else to hang with. While I was in the mental hospital the first time, I thought i fell in love. I had met this amazing guy and every time I think about him I would smile and our little fling was like a movie but when we got out he stop talking/contacting me and I felt so heartbroken. He dropped me and treated me like I never existed and he was my first love and so it really hurts
never PC said on June 13, 2017
Being politically correct (PC) has become a cult. These PC social justice warrior bullies are so fanatical about their beliefs to the point where they've become a mind-control cult. Google "warning signs of being in a cult", and most of this relates perfectly to the politically correct wackos and fanatics. PC bullies are not so much interested in justice as they are in telling everyone else what to do, what to say and how to say it, what to think. PC types are bullies.
Noneya said on June 14, 2017
I run a fairly successful podcast and have tolerated a particular guest on behalf of my cohost that we give a monthly spot to. I disagree with BOTH of them politically and have been basically bullied since April of 2016 indirectly but have kept my mouth shut. I was done with it today when said monthly guest was gloating about people getting shot. I unfriended him and put cohost on notice that I am not doing it anymore. I don't want my name attached to his childish bullshit anymore and am fully prepared to shut down the whole thing since I'm the one paying for the show to be on the air. My cohost is my best friend and the only reason I have tolerated this nonsense so long, but I am officially done and have said so. it feels good but am nervous of losing said friendship. I just can't take it anymore.
LoudSilence said on June 15, 2017
My husband is an emotional bully. He is still hurling insults at the tender age of 54, it's pathetic. The man can't simply have a conversation. And if something is actually wrong, watch out. He continuously exagerates, uses words like "always, never, major, forever, catastrophe, disaster" and similar terms. His words are grandiose and overly charged regularly. I cannot disagree with him or else I get a barrage of how I always think the opposite of him, how I must think he knows nothing, how that is a commplete FU. Today he got in my face and screamed obscenities one after another and then said FU C*nt. Zero respect for me and most women from what I am slowly realizing. Women drivers, women in politics, all women are the same (his last wife and 2 gfs subsequently cheated on him) He even dislikes his mother, critizices her constantly. I have never argued in any of my relationships. I have never been called names like that or any names for that matter, I'm 48 yrs old. He has been screaming like this since we got married. He did it once before we married but I let it go, it was once in a year and he was really upset about something to do with his mother. We got married and it has been a screamfest for him since. Anytime he gets frustrated, like when the wind shifts, he loses his mind. Anything that goes wrong in his life, he takes out on someone else, rather than fix it. Then it resolves and he continues on like nothing happened, leaving the other person reeling, terrified, angry, whatever the case may be. The other person is usually me, since I spend the most time with him, but he does this to his mother, his friends, his sister, name it. He has an emotional anger issue if there is such a thing. I dont' know how to calm him down, I just keep getting showered with insults and screams. I can't be intimate with him anymore, I can't feel close to him when he screams at me constantly. He is so toxic anymore to himself and to me. Today he said FU C*nt to me because I didn't appreciate his work in the yard enough. He needs CONSTANT validation, it's insane. He then threw a notepad and pen across the room to futher make his point. It's like dealing with an insecure 6 yr old in the body of a screaming 54 yr old bully who can't control his emotions nor his volume. It feels so abusive. I hate that term, because he works so hard and has a big heart, but his mouth is so poisonous and so loud, I don't know how to deal with it anymore. I'm out of fuse and we have a child that is starting to notice how dad is always yelling at mom. I've always been such a confident person too, happy, smiling all the time, enjoying life. Being positive is damn nearly impossible around him. He brings me down so far it's painful. I don't have any friends I can talk to about this, because I dont' want to hurt his reputation and it's embarrassing. So here I am venting online, trying to find back some of my positivity and happy go lucky self by getting rid of some of these ugly thoughts and memories. I hope he doesn't scream at me again, I can't take anymore today. I know it's not like getting beat up physically, but the mental exhaustion I deal with is there and getting worse. I would miss him if he left, but right now…
Chantelle said on July 16, 2017
Leave. Easier said than done, but it always starts off verbal. I've witnessed it with my mum growing up, and dealt with it in one of my past relationships. The verbal abuse almost always turns to physical abuse. Their words will tear you down until you have 0% confidence left in yourself… then they'll control you, then they'll become slightly physical (a push here, a wrist grab there)… then it becomes violent. The longer you let him treat you like shit, the more you validate his behaviour. You don't need to explain "why" to anybody, but please… leave
Bobo The Hobo said on August 24, 2017
Kick him in the balls. Tell him to kiss your ass.
Elliciting said on September 18, 2017
Talk responsibly, just have a long conversation countering insults with explained arguments honestly if he cares enough he'd listen to you and at least tone the anger down. Otherwise it's a pretty toxic relationship and you should probably leave in a way..
Otherwise I have no idea what I'm talking about and I can't give decent advice.
DyingOfLoneliness said on June 17, 2017
I'm so lonely. It's been alone for the majority of my life. Not even my parents want to spend time with me. I live in an extremely isolated area, there is nobody to make friends with that I can relate to at all. All my online friends ditch me for their real life friends. I crave the attention from a girl that I've been secretly madly in love with for 4 years and she barely gives me any. I've been in a downward spiral for so long. She basically ignores me for 3 days straight, and just as I am ready to give up on her she gives me attention. It's been like this for 4. fucking. years. I can't move on, yet there is absolutely no possibility of anything happening. I live too far away in a place that she said she would rather die than visit, so what's the point of anyhting??? Even if I try to make new friends they will feel the same way about where I live and not want to be friends with me. Nobody wants to visit. Nobody wants to spend time with me. Not even I want to spend time with me now. I'm going insane. There is no happiness in my life, and if there is it immediately leads to frustration and disappointment.
I am forced to vent somewhere like this because NOBODY will listen to me.
"I'm here for you if you need me!!!"
Ok I need you I'm dying of loneliness and despair I just need someone to talk to
":( o dat sucks… brb going out with friends!!!! xdddd cya"
Justme said on July 7, 2017
I understand the feeling all too well. I'm so lonely. I'm the one that gets ditched. I had a friend that always said we'd go out but the day of she'd ignore me and not reply. She ignored me whenever she felt like it actually. Now I have no friends. I don't fit in with my family because every time I let them back into my life they hurt me again. I go to work and come home. I dated a guy for 6 years. It was 6 years of lies and cheating. He would beg me to date him to find out he was still with his wife. We'd break up. Just as I was getting better he'd beg me back. His family lied for him saying he wasn't with her. We lived together then the truth would come out. She knew he was with me but I actually stupidly trusted him. 15 months ago we broke up for good but up until 3 weeks ago he has been emailing me and telling me I'm the love of his life and we are meant to be. All lies and games. I sit here hurt and lost and lonely. I have 4 amazing kids. Youngest is 16. Thank god I have no kids with my cheating ex. I have nobody to talk to. I'd be your friend but we have no way to contact each other. Try to stay strong.
worthless said on July 21, 2017
I'm also very lonely.
Guest said on June 18, 2017
So i now noticed how there are no forums or websites for stepchildren to vent out their own frustrations. So far it has just been the new spouses, usually women, whining about their spouses children and as a stepchild myself i find that offensive. They cant suck it up and accept the kid may hate them. I have been tired of my stepfamily for the past four years. They always seem to gang up on me and make me the oddball out. My biological grandma talks about how much of a piece of garbage my real father was and i hate it because whether they like it or not the man created me meaning i am like 50% that guy. How do they think i feel? It is almost like they are insulting me. I am not condoning what he did but you dont just call the father of your child a piece of garbage. Sure i never knew him but i am still partially that person. Maybe not in spirit or attitude but definitely in dna. Are they saying im destined to end up like him? Are they saying im just as bad as he is? STOP IT. Im sick of their sh** . my stepsisters get pissed if i say anything about my real father and god forbid if i say shit about my stepdad. My mom escaped my physically and verbally abusive father only to be yelled at by the drunken piece of shit im now forced to call father. I love my stepdad dont get me wrong. The man raised me, but is it too much for me to ask of him that he stops yelling at my mom and at my stepsisters making a shitty living situation for all of us. I argue with him because i feel the need to defend my sisters and my mom. He only acts like he does because no one stands up to him. I try to help everyone only to be called an idiot or to be told to shut up to be honest all i ever feel like doing is isolating myself from them so i can cry myself to sleep at least then id be someehat happier or better
ughh said on June 19, 2017
ughh i hate exams and i'm not in the mood for working i just wanna sit and chill
annoyed Ano said on June 20, 2017
We have a guy that lives with us, he shares his food stamps in exchange for shelter, but we have a problem, (we being me and my family)
He over eats, he excessively uses water, Example: using water house for 2-4 hours at a time to Over water the back yard, he brings home junk, washes things he shouldn't (such as press wood) he over doses things. and its taking a total on us financially, its good to have the food stamps because my moms SSI check goses on all the bills, so theirs none left after to spend on food just in case of an emergency. my step dad was laid of work due to his disability and has not bendable to get more work/back to his old jobs other than working on cars day and night. (even the people he works for rip him off. and wont pay him for the jobs he dose) it makes me angry.
but back to the main issue, this guy wont stop over eating, he goses threw food quickly and eats A LOT at a time so our food that should last us all month only lat us half a month, when we bought food he ate 3 burritos, 2 bags of chips and half of a pack of cookies all on his own, he eats like this a lot. he just doesn't stop, he has even destroyed our back yard, digging up our grass and flipping it over , digging a moat in our back yard , leaving the doors unlocked and doors open, (causing our cats to get out) he just doesn't care, and he ignores us, I'm becoming fed up with it, there are plus sides but his actions over weigh the good that comes from having him around. food prices are going up, my mom and step dad are too sick to starve because he wants to binge eat all our food, we had a box of ribs out that is all we have left for dinner, he ate almost the whole box leaving nothing left but maybe one tiny rib per person, and theses aren't huge ribs they are tinny more or less the size of my palm (I'm female so i have small hands) even when i told him it was all we had left he proceeded to eat all of the ones he cooked leaving us with almost nothing
i don't know what to do anymore. i want to get rid of him not my parents seem to want too keep him around because we need the help. and we wont last without what he gives
he also goses threw a whole gallon of milk to, sodas, ice, juice. he uses huge cups(the large ones you get from fast food places and gas stations) some times multiple at one time to fill up with drinks .
private said on June 28, 2017
That sounds a lot like someone we helped out. We live near the IN/IL border near Chicago. I had my husband force him to leave. It was unreal but sounds exactly the same. I would wake up and food I planned to take for lunch or cook the next day was gone. I loaf of bread and sandwich meat in one night etc. I hope you have some relief now.
upset said on June 22, 2017
I've been looking forward to this game for weeks and I assumed you'd make a space for me. Nevermind, I guess I'm not worth doing that for. You could have at least told me a few weeks ago before I started getting excited. Now you're barely talking to me and no one is fucking showing courtesy to quickly respond to me. Fuck. I don't want to be mad at people, I just want to have people communicate with me.
I messed up said on June 23, 2017
I need to vent. I scewed up and made a mistkae I regret. It was wrong and I have accepted that. The problem is one of my friends that knew about this when it happened (6 months ago) wont drop it. They run a succesful online "acceptance is key community" and the drama came up again somehow and I have sonce been kicked out. I just dont know what to do about it. She has accused me of blaiming others and I really want to go back to just being friends, but she is making it extremly difficult to do. I just don't know what to do. I really enjoyed being part of the community and I can't tell if she doesnt even want to talk to me anymore, which would suck, she was one of my best friends. Im sorry but i just need somewhere to get this off my chest. I accepted it happened and tried to move on, and the person i did it to accepted but my friend won't drop it. I just need to know where we stand. I think i'll apologize and ask her straight up. I'm leaving soon anyways, won't have to deal with her again hopefully
Harley said on June 27, 2017
I'm moving in a few months and it's going to cost me a lot like i'll have to have a few jobs and i won't have much spending money and i'm ok with that I'm doing it for someone i love but now i'm conflicted about buying an outfit for an event my sister in law wants me to go to because i could either skip the outfit and save the money or i could buy the outfit all thats going through my mind is oh well you know i'm barely scraping by but that gooood i have that outfit i'll only use a few times in my life
insulted customer said on June 28, 2017
There's no excuse for rude, verbally abusive behavior from retail sales staff. Yesterday morning, June 27, 2017, I stopped by Crossroads Trading Co. in Studio City, California (a community in Los Angeles) in order to sell them two pairs of shoes that were in good condition, and I was treated horribly. The woman behind the counter (wearing all-black clothing, lots of makeup, bleached hair) was beyond rude; she was condescending and very insulting to me. She said they only accept "VERY high-end shoes", in a snotty, patronizing tone, and she smirked and rolled her eyes at me. I was hurt and humiliated. This afternoon, when I called to speak with a manager regarding the rude employee, the woman who took my call hung up on me. How cowardly. You should check out all the other negative reviews of the Studio City store on Yelp. Never will I ever go back to Crossroads. These people are disgusting
nothing said on June 28, 2017
I am struggling with high blood pressure and no insurance. Will be seeing a doctor on the 8th of July, and I am so tired of self absorbed teenagers that cannot be trusted…. demanding shit and giving attitude all the time…. I feel like my chest is going to burst and I've got attitude from family….. just tired of it…. fed up
fmlk said on June 28, 2017
im really upset. i just got my report card today and none of my friends are in my class. also, tonight is the first night my parents are like "officially" divorced and im crying my eyes out.
anaon. said on June 28, 2017
There's no excuse for rude, verbally abusive behavior from retail sales staff. Yesterday morning, June 27, 2017, I stopped by Crossroads Trading Co. in Studio City, California (a community in Los Angeles) in order to sell them two pairs of shoes that were in good condition, and I was treated horribly. The woman behind the counter was beyond rude; she was condescending and very insulting to me. She said they only accept "VERY high-end shoes", in a snotty, patronizing tone, and she smirked and rolled her eyes at me. I was hurt and humiliated. When I called to speak with a manager regarding the rude employee, the woman who took my call hung up on me. How cowardly. You should check out all the other negative reviews of the Studio City store on Yelp. Never will I ever go back to Crossroads.
Anon said on July 3, 2017
I cannot complain to my boyfriend because I have no right to. I have mistreated him to the point that I have no right to complain to him about being upset. It's really nothing, but it becomes quite something when you can't let it out PERIOD. I was clearly frustrated about the lack of space on my hard drive and he makes this snide remark "I mean, my laptop has a terabyte", good for fucking you. To add to that he told me he was excited by my day off that wasn't anticipated yesterday, but he has given me the cold shoulder all day long.
tired said on July 3, 2017
I'm fed up. I always feel like I'm never good enough for my family. They only focus on the mistakes I've made. They say how I'm so rotten, evil hearted, selfish and fake. That I contribute nothing to this family. Pretty much that I'm a burden. And I'm so ungrateful for all they've done for me. They're so quick to point fingers and taunt me about the mistakes I've made but act like they haven't done any worse. I feel alone in such a big family that's suppose to love and support me through it all. Advice to any parent or rlly anybody: Don't talk down on your kids no matter what the mistake. Don't make them feel like failures. Don't bring them down. Everything you say to them matters and it really does effect them. Be conscious of what youre saying to others. Telling them how stupid, rotten and disgusting they are or look only tears them down more. Acknowledge the mistake but uplift & encourage them to make better decisions. Don't make them fee worthless. Cause that's the kind of life they'll feel like living.
Justme said on July 8, 2017
Don't wait for them to forgive you. Forgive yourself and move on. It's not easy but I've been in the same situation and now I look at them and say I've moved on now you should.
orionsmith said on July 7, 2017
My wife of 8 years went and cheated on me and now they are happy while I'm miserable and I hate them for it and hope nothing but misery and sadness upon them because lying cheaters don't deserve to be happy
Hog said on August 24, 2017
That's lame. Hope their house burns down.
anonymous said on July 12, 2017
The stupidity in saying that all modern-day white people are racist is one of the more idiotic ideas of PC social justice warriors.
Hog said on August 23, 2017
Amen to that fuck those stupid snowflakes. I wish the stupid fuck wads would leave the United States like they keep threatening to do. And take all the fucking Muslims with them too Lord knows Islam is a fucking cancer.
Her true friend said on July 13, 2017
A guy who liked a friend of mine freaked out when she made a new guy friend. She was called names. It breaks my heart because everyone knows she's such a sweet person…That was two years ago. He still thinks he has a chance with her or something. After she got over it and over him, he's not over her, and I'm sure of it. I'm scared for her as a friend because she's very fragile and sensitive. I want her to experience a love life with different people but I'm scared that he will still freak out. She hurt herself over this because she thought that everything was her fault when it wasn't. I'm crying as I type this. It hurt me to have seen her in such a weak state back then.
Michael said on August 9, 2017
Your friend deserves to find someone SHE is interested in. Sounds like she owes this guy you speak of nothing.
The internet at my place is so shit and slow and I can't change it because my flatmates rooms are closer to the modem and it doesn't affect them like it does me… they literally only use the internet for poker games and youtube. I'm a full time conjoint Law student working part time for a Law firm that expects me to do all my work on our online database. So mad
Chontelle said on July 21, 2017
My "family" are so f*#`ed up. They abuse physically, sexually, mentally and emotionally. From aunties to uncles to grandparents to cousins. They're all so cruel and they get away with it allllllll the time because my mum dated a pedo and ignored my advice and now can't stand up to the rest of the "family" for fear of losing custody of my brothers. The only genuinely nice one in the extended "family" was my uncle (more like an older brother) who passed away four months ago. The rest of them are all so nasty and thrive off abusing and bullying people. Yet none of them can take any responsibility for their actions and always blame their s*%t on their past. F*@+ you all. I hope karma comes knocking on all your doors
Alternate Blue said on July 26, 2017
I work in a customer service oriented job. One that's really close to a transit center an as a consequence my store sees a lot of drug addicts and homeless people. Recently our bathrooms have been locked with keypads and we're not allowed to hand out the code. Today I was called a deplorable human being because I asked a woman with a kid to wait because I was in the middle of helping another customer (and since it was late it was just me, my manager, and the closing cashier) with no else available. The kid needed the bathroom so I finished with the first customer very quickly and practically sprinted to the bathroom.
After about an hour the woman's husband comes in, waits for my manager to be in the vicinity (as well as myself) and comes up in a joking/light-hearted manner about a complaint. He then lectures me on a law that states denying children and those with a medical need the bathroom is classified as assault. Angrily tells me that I ignored his wife (he was apparently watching the interaction the whole time?) and slowly walked to the restroom. As a result his kid had an accident and that I had basically committed assault against the kid. Even though I did everything I could to help them and the customer I was working with as quickly as possible.
Even though my manager told me not to worry about it, and that it was a problem with the current system, I spent the rest of my shift pissed off and holding back tears. Because some asshole thought it'd be great to tell someone working their ass off to provide service that they had decided to harm a kid intentionally.
Denise said on August 3, 2017
I'm so sorry you had to deal with that. I hope you feel better now that time has passed. Just so you know… I appreciate you.
R2D2 said on August 18, 2017
Wow those people are cunts
- z said on July 26, 2017
im really tired of this
sara said on July 27, 2017
the way i grew up is completely different to the way by little sister is growing up (shes 5 im 16).Im a junior in high school and she is in kindergarten. next summer we are moving out of state (only 45 minuets away from where we are currently live) which means ill be living with my aunt monday through friday until i graduate high school. im excited about moving to an actual house but also im not upset just bitter? about the whole thing. growing up I lived in a tiny old apartment after apartment then a trailer park and now my parents decided to go get a house to live in. I dont know im happy because my sister well get to live the life i dreamed about living for as long as i could remember but idk. i had to grow up fast i was always alone always had to take care of myself which always meant i couldn't really make a lot of friends so i never have anyone to talk to about this stuff. I have like 3 friends but tbh im not exactly super close with any of them. but ugh i make no sense
just read said on August 4, 2017
hi hello. welcome to a vent where i rant about all my fucking life problems and everything. im a very social person living very well and healthy and have everything i could possibly ask for. I cant stress enough how much i go out partying and drinking and smoking and everything you can imagine. surprisingly enough im still a virgin tho! im not in college but in school and where i live its a small city and everyone knows each other. there is plenty of entertainment from cars to bars to people to hotels to everything. i was obviously doing everything behind everyones back yet acting like the sweetest angel ever. bet you would have thought i went to acting school. point is my mum knows but my dad doesnt. fair. however i dont know how they expect me to become a good child (i never was even when i was as young as 4) when they dont give me what i want. like okay i understand where my mum is coming from but she is taking it way too far. i kid you not even though this lifestyle is a blessing, some things i would never go back to such as drinking. karma hit me back like a bitch but fuck you karma. was always on my side now againsts me. anyways, i got really depressed bc obviously i got grounded and what not, ended up trying to kill myself but nope did not work. soon enough i will tho. BACK TO THE POINT *with no depression* i only have a couple of years till im off and i cant wait that long so i really dont know what to do even tho my whole family semi gave up on me but oh well. mind you mum i being a lil fucking cunt and divorcing my dad as soon as i graduate which i really dont want and that fucking disgusts me since my father didnt do anything. poor him. im all very frustrated and want to choke someone. now trust me i find out everything. they think im stupid. im not. oh well. anyways see you guys in a couple of years when im off and probably flipping everyone off. oh and fuck my ex for or actually should thank him for making me a bad as fuck bitch
HugeFreakinGuy said on August 26, 2017
I'll get in the bed with you 😉
Andrew said on August 5, 2017
I just graduated grade 12, I have had a girlfriend for a year and a half. She is very much in love with me and doesn't know what i'm about to say. I love her, and shes been nothing short of a perfect girlfriend. However, my feelings for her (sexual and not) are fading. I think its because we were rushed into the relationship by mutual friends, and I didn't think it through and just went for it without thinking if I actually like her or not. She thinks that me and her have
a future, but I just don't. When I spend more than a few days with her I can hardly take it anymore and i get so annoyed and frustrated with her for the littlest things. I just cant see myself spending my life with her. All things considered, the thought of breaking her heart makes me feel sick. I'm so torn, half of me is wondering if there's something better for me out there, the other half is scared that if i let her go, i'l never find someone as good as her again. I just can't explain why i don't feel the same about her anymore. A few months ago, we wee on the rocks for a while. My dam broke and I told her a fraction of what I am feeling and I backed out. During this time I started to fall for a co-worker. she was a pleasure to be around and so god damn attractive it made my body weak and was single. spending more and more time with her (Albeit working) made me realize how little I actually liked my girlfriend. Should I feel guilty for thinking this? Of course, I am 100% loyal to my girlfriend as she deserves nothing less. But it was very hard to not be flirty with my co-worker. A while back, this co-worker i was in love with left for a different job, and as far as I know, currently has a boyfriend. I haven't seen or talked to her since except a few times shes driven by (she lives down the street from me) Anyways, I cant help thinking that I might have missed a chance to try love with someone new. My girlfriend is the only girlfriend i've ever had. Occasionally my co worker will post a new photo on Instagram and I admire her beautiful looks and wish so bad that i could sit her down and tell her everything i've written here. I feel so guilty about falling out of love with my girlfriend, but it just doesn't feel right. To my Co-worker, M.M. If you're reading this, I wish i knew if you felt anything for me, and i wish that you could be my second chance. What a night mare this feeling is. I dont know what to do or feel about my girlfriend. Am I wrong about my feelings? or should I trust my gut or not? please, any advice I would appreciate.
Alex said on August 26, 2017
Hey, the exact same thing happened to me. Personally I think you should break up with your girlfriend and give the other girl a chance. I waited too long to break up with mine and it made it harder on both of us. Also if you wait too long the other girl won't know if you're interested or not and she will start to lose interest in you. Worst case scenario is that the other girl doesn't like you and you're single again. I waited too long to break up with my ex so the other girl lost interest so I suggest hurrying up. Good luck 🙂
Also don't feel guilty its just how life works.
Idiot said on August 8, 2017
I want to lose weight and I know I need to stop eating so much sugar, but I just had such a shit day today and I know its because Im tired. Im spending over $150 a week on food because I eat out so much. I bough chocolate, a doughnut, and lollies today, even though I couldnt afford them, and didnt need them, I just did it to make me feel better. Im so fucking weak I cant do anything. Bailed on a date. Havent exercised. I feel sick and horrible now. I hate everything and I hate myself. I should be studying but Im not. I should be running but Im not. I should be socialising but im not. Im so useless and I hate it.
Mikey said on August 9, 2017
Forgive yourself. You're not alone friend.
I'm curious if you have any suspicions of being depressed or having low self-esteem? Could help.
Someone told me to focus on solutions instead of problems; It seems to have helped incrementally.
I also find it helpful to think of each of those issues that can rear their head at you so often as "learnable"
Excercise, Dating, Feeling bad, Studying when necessary, Socializing, etc. they can all essentially be broken down into little skills. Like an RPG game. Just a little progress goes a long way. It's never too late to start either.
Just my two measly cents.
Meant to say it could help to see a professional or even talk to someone you trust
personwhosebeenthere said on August 20, 2017
I believe in you. I know its hard right now but once you do good it becomes easier to resist stuff like that.
ItFeelsLikeADream said on August 9, 2017
I feel like the past two years have been all a dream. After such a massive betrayal from my girlfriend, life seemed to stop progressing. Im 22 now, but I feel like I'm stuck in the past. After going through the worst depression in my life, I am finally starting to improve and I am in the process of reflecting on what exactly happened. Jeseli, if you ever read this, I wish I could comprehend the decisions and actions you have taken against me, but I cannot rationalize it… Even through my mixed feelings and emotions, my love for you is still strong. In our time together, you made me feel what true love really meant. You taught me to love myself for who I am, and to enjoy the small and happy moments in life.
Ricardo said on August 11, 2017
Okay so what has me pissed off is mostly because of a girl ive been hanging out with lately and the thing is she is a little older than me like 2 years older and so i met her during school and now its summer and shes been hanging out alot with other guys and she always sends me pics of their convo or something or she tells me how amazing they are and ill be nice and compliment it but it fucking irrtates me so much most of the thing i want to punch a wall or find the guy and beat the shit out of him
Move on. Easier said than done I know but it would be better for you to move on. Not worth your time.
Hawk said on August 17, 2017
If you think socialism will work in the United States , you are a fucking idiot. Not only are you a fucking idiot but you are my fucking enemy. I don't want you around me around my family or around anything I hold dear. As a matter fact I would like to see you jailed or deported. You are what's not only wrong with the United States but with the fucking world. Your ideology is a disease and so are you for adhering to it. Going forward if I hear anyone in my presence defend this evil failed ideology and system, I will level them. Either with my bare hands or a blunt object. This isn't just an opposing view to me, this is a treasonous ideology, economic poison, pure evil, and a deadly disease. I'll have none of it.
anonymous said on August 19, 2017
I agree with you. The very idea of socialism – along with Communism – is evil and repulsive. And it's a disgrace that so many liberals and so-called progressives in this country embrace socialism. This is just totally wrong. I recommend Dinesh D'Souza's newest book, "The Big Lie", in which he exposes leftism as the originator of socialism, fascism, and Nazism. Few people are as evil-minded as socialists. They really do want to tear down this country.
bunnii said on August 18, 2017
my last relationship really left me in an emotional hole… i find myself remembering the good times a lot lately and I honestly hate it..once those memories subside i think of him and her together and it leaves me asking what I couldve done… granted the way the shit went down I feel no one should endure but i still find myself blaming me… wondering why i wasnt good enough and why things had to be this way… i mean i can honestly say he was my first real love… i wouldve given it all just be beside him sometimes.. cancelled time with others just to see him… just seeing his smile did me in so many times… he was my blood.. the only thing making me feel alive.. like i know how i sound.. i sound soft and hurt… i am…. that was my heart and now i have no other choice but to watch him be with someone else… its causing me so much pain now because i cant let anyone in… i cant get close.. im not even interested half the time.. got a wall so secure even the most supportive and meaning love hasnt broken it down… it sucks but i have nothing to hide because hiding how i feel and trying to make myself believe i dont care has only caused me further harm… i want everyone out there trying so hard to move on from something they truly thought was forever to know its ok to be hurt.. its ok to not want to be involved with anyone.. you gotta allow yourself that time to get over what has happened… because when you truly ready to move on you dont wanna be so caught up in your hurt that you dont trust the one who is actually good to you.. take your time and heal. #ConfessionsOfABrokenHeart
Captain Howdy said on August 18, 2017
I swear to God I hate working in an office full of women. Most of them are nothing more than a bunch of dumb ass secretaries. Some days I go home and I just want to blow my fucking brains out. Sunday before the week begins I can't sleep without taking a huge dose of NyQuil or drinking at least a six pack of beer. My skin just fucking crawls dreading the week
Believer 777 said on August 18, 2017
I just want to tell anyone reading on the site, anyone who is in a bad way at all right now, that Jesus Christ does see your pain and knows all of what's going on.
Do you feel like there's no hope? Do you feel like there's nothing you can do to save your soul? Well on your own that's correct.
But there is hope in Jesus. John 3:16 says for God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son that who so ever believe it's in him should not perish but have everlasting life.
Romans 10:9 says that if Thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead thou shalt be saved.
We have all sinned. Romans 3:23 says all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God. That means even if you have told one White lie. No matter how small you have sinned against God. Jesus Christ was sent to earth to die for our sins on the cross. By placing your trust in him and what he did on the cross, you are forgiven of your sins and are secure in him.
TheArmysBitch said on August 20, 2017
Army K-9 Is the worst job in the world. We tell everyone its great that its the best job in the army. Most of the lower enlisted have confessed to being depressed and I have become very suicidal. Its too much people cant work 12-14 hours a day without a lunch or sitting down. They say that they afford us the opportunity but you know that's not true if its common practice to hide while you eat. We are expected to be the best at what we do and they don't blame the dogs for anything its always our fault that the dog is fucked up. I'm sorry but if the dog whose trained to find bombs literally puts his face 4 inches from several pounds of TNT and shows no change of behavior its the dogs fucking fault. Not mine for not bending low enough. But its ok when they are at my funeral they will make sure the rest of the privates know not to be a fuck up like me.
I watched them almost kill someone you know. There was a solder who was literally bleeding out of their ass and crying all hours of the day and they told her to suck it up, They even threatened several times to kick her out of the army if they didn't stop faking it. Another time some guy almost died because of a blood clot, the first thing our chain of command did was to force him to be tested for alcohol. I literally cant sleep imaging what horrors lie for me tomorrow. We are all being forced to take a test that only like one person is ready for and its going to be awful. All they are going to do all day long is tell us how horrible and lazy we are. And they are inviting the whole damn base. Lets just say our sergeant major is not going to be the highest ranking individual there. My dreams are dead, we don't train dogs we check daily boxes for people who don't understand what we do. I cant bring myself to be motivated and this past week I stopped caring I'm going to fail and my chain of command is going to kill me. I'm not sure how they are ganna do that yet but heat exhaustion has already happened which I got in trouble for giving up as they say. So its only a matter of time since we do PT in the evening instead of the morning anyways.
I want to be a good solder I really do but I cant. They say it gets better but they were lying, it gets worse. My new boss has already seen me crying but hey if I take care of myself at least my peers get a four day. Wait on second thought the motto when I first got here was "The unit gets a four day? Didn't you know your k-9 you don't get a four day"
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