hater of weddings said on July 2, 2018
I preface this with don't hate me I know I sound horrible, but I am here to vent and I cannot say this to anyone else because trust me, I've tried to get it out of my head in a toned down way and the rest of society doesn't want to hear it – everyone has drank the cool-aid and I swear to god I am the only one who feels this way and I think my head is going to explode so here goes… I have nothing against marriage, nothing at all, you get married – or don't – I really don't care what you do. But I have come to realize that I really don't like weddings. If I have to hear "It's my day" one more time I may lose my mind. Does the person (or people who condone that phrase) realize how selfish that is? "It's MY day!" Yup, you're right you stupid selfish spoiled brat child. There is absolutely no one else in the world who matters. Even if you are paying for every single thing yourself, no one else is in any way impacted by the self centered things that you do on "YOUR FUCKING DAY". All of the friends and family that you are treating as if they are insignificant. I know you can't please everyone, so you may as well please yourself, I get that, but for the love of god, please stop doing it under the pretense that it's ok because "it's your day". You're doing it because you want to have things your way. This is how you are in general. This is who you are. Your true self is coming out and you are using the fact that "IT'S YOUR DAY" as the excuse to get what you've always wanted with no questions asked. Like a kid in a candy store with out any repercussions, it's a free pass to be a selfish brat because "it's your day" FUCK YOU. I see you for who you are. I am not fooled.
Thank you for letting me rant.
Beans said on July 2, 2018
Man shouldn't lie with another man.
ugh said on July 2, 2018
Nice way to get your gay hate into a thread. I'll give you credit for that
Nice way to get in here and me to tell you not to be gay. I’ll give you that.
Loud_Preacher1611 said on July 3, 2018
“But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name: Which were born, not of blood, nor of the will of the flesh, nor of the will of man, but of God.”
??John? ?1:12-13? ?KJV??
Loud_Preacher1611 said on July 4, 2018
“Enter ye in at the strait gate: for wide is the gate, and broad is the way, that leadeth to destruction, and many there be which go in thereat: Because strait is the gate, and narrow is the way, which leadeth unto life, and few there be that find it.”
??Matthew? ?7:13-14? ?KJV??
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.”
??John? ?3:16? ?KJV??
“That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved. For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation. For the scripture saith, Whosoever believeth on him shall not be ashamed. For there is no difference between the Jew and the Greek: for the same Lord over all is rich unto all that call upon him. For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.”
??Romans? ?10:9-13? ?KJV??
FckLife said on July 5, 2018
Don't even know what's the point in asking for assurance or advice when all they do is give a bullshit rebuttal with little logic to it. I just wish I could just fully control my life, but I can't do that at this point in my life, and I'm grateful that I don't HAVE to, but it just feels more like an obstacle rather than a support. I have no doubts that my mental health has degraded because of their character and the more stress they give me. It wasn't always great, but it's definitely worse now. I have no idea to label my state of mind as depression, and I can't be bothered to go actually check it out if I know the problem isn't going to be fixed with just treatments and medication. I realized the other day, or rather, a reminder, that I'm a lot more fed up than I used to be. I'm always irritated, quick to anger, I have no grasp on real patience and I love going on long-ass rants about how I feel about even the most petty things (like right now) because I just need to get this anger vented out in some kind of form and I have no actual way of doing that without making someone else irritated/tired of me, or just escalate my anger.
I want this problem to be fixed, and I want whatever this terrible feeling to be fixed, but it's probably been a few years and it hasn't. I've been telling myself over and over again that I have to fix it, and it just won't. I'll say, I'll be able to do better this time, and it fucking doesn't happen.
At this point, I'd rather just drop off everything and just go on a long journey somewhere, telling no one, and just disappear for a while. I can't do that, I won't survive like that, and it's just selfish of me to do so and a lot of wasted time. I'm just tired of everything, and I wish something fucking terrible happens to me so I can avoid/hold off my growing snowball but it won't be my fault if it does. It's a bad mentality, but I've been thinking about this for a long time and I'm just overall done with my situation, the people around me and me as a person.
LoudPreacher2018 said on July 7, 2018
If you died today do you know for sure you’re going to heaven?
God loves you
All have sinned (have you lied before? Have you ever envied someone?)
A debt must be paid for your sin.
The Good News is Christ paid that debt for you.
You must repent of your sin (recognize what you’ve done and that the only way to be reconciled to God is accepting what Jesus Christ did for you on the cross with His death, burial, and resurrection as payment for that.)
When you ask Him to forgive your sin and to save you, you become a new creature.
2 Corinthians 5:17
You are secure in Him
1 John 5:13
If you have made the decision to accept Jesus as your Savior and Lord, prayerfully seek a body of other Christians/Believers, pray daily and study the Bible.
God bless you all and have a great day.
Whatever said on July 8, 2018
Kinda accepted this, expected to happen a while ago, but now its sinking in and while I expected to happen, its still not a great feeling.
If you hang out with a friend just because you're "bored" or "lonely" rather than just wanting to hang out with that person and is ready to ditch them the second your other friend is free, than that's just being used. And you know, maybe I'm just misunderstanding, alright, but when they've told me that they do it all the time before, I can't help but feel like they're just doing the same thing but to me.
It's all these little things that remind me that they're just not a good person, and it pisses the hell out of me because I do care about them even though they probably don't give 2 shits about me. This is a person who I was friends with but it just doesn't feel like I'm getting any respect at all and no one can read minds, so who knows if they actually feel that way or if I'm just paranoid, it's the first time I felt like this and I feel somewhat betrayed.
Beans said on August 10, 2018
Man shouldn’t lie with another man
Guest said on April 23, 2018
Beans: No one fucking cares. This isn't a place of judgement, dipshit. Let them vent if they need to vent.
Beans said on April 25, 2018
Guest: don’t be gay
LoudPreacher2018 said on July 8, 2018
“But ye are a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, an holy nation, a peculiar people; that ye should shew forth the praises of him who hath called you out of darkness into his marvellous light:”
??1 Peter? ?2:9? ?KJV??
unhappy said on July 13, 2018
Maybe some people just aren't supposed to be happy. When I was poor I thought I wasn't happy because I was struggling so hard for everything. Now I'm not struggling so hard but still not happy. When I was fatter I thought if Iost some wight I would be happier not being overweight and in my mind less attractive. Turns out that doesn't matter either. I lost weight and I feel the same. My marriage wasn't great, surely fixing that problem would make me less unhappy. Well that seemed to work temporarily but not for long. I think I am just doomed to live my life in a state of perpetual unsatisfaction. Nothing brings me joy. It's going to be a long miserable life. Or maybe not long, the rest of my family seems to be unhealthy enough to die before it's considered a long life so maybe it'll just be a moderate length miserable life.
Lindsay said on July 21, 2018
Even hearing her breathe makes me so angry I can barely even see straight. I can't handle being here. It's almost as bad as my dad except I know it isn't. There's no physical abuse. Just judgement and nasty attitudes and not listening and not understanding. I wish that I made enough money to have my own place so I wouldn't have to worry about it. but even with my work, rent and food here knocks me right down. I don't have enough to even take my brother to lunch. She always goes through my things and makes a mess of it, putting them where they don't belong and messing with stuff that isn't hers. How can someone come into a room that isn't theirs and think "wow the underwear isn't in the right spot and move it all"?! I had to ravage the whole space just to find some. I feel so uncomfortable and awful and guilty for wishing she would just go up to her room and not try to interact with or be around me. I'm so done but I have nowhere to go.
bookdragon45 said on July 23, 2018
I am soo sick of my boyfriends friend! we take this guy on vacation and we show up with one bag between me and my boyfriend and this guy has the nerve to show up with THREE BAGS! that's not even the worse of it this guy who is THREE YEARS OLDER THAN ME was acting like a freaking child the whole vacation and just driving me nuts! he was winning because he didn't want to get separate rooms. I mean come one me and my boyfriend DONT WANT TO SHARE A ROOM WITH YOU! so he throws a damn fit like a child he is. then he has the nerve to ask us to hold his damn cup for him when the damn cup holders where RIGHT THERE I mean literally right there but he was just too damn lazy to do it himself. He also was trying to dictate what coasters we went on god forbid we went on one I wanted to! Then he would whine if we didn't want to ride in the front with him on the coaster this guy literally made me contemplate punching him in the damn face!
Hawke said on May 31, 2018
Is that all you do on here? Just repeat yourself?
the young hermit said on July 27, 2018
I'm so tired. I haven't made a friend in years. I haven't had a friend in years. I've just been isolated, alone, deathly afriad of talking to people. I'm so tired. I'm lonely. I just want to die. I'd rather be dead then have to wake up everyday with this void in my heart. I probubly just sound realy draatic but. I attend online school. I live with my parents, an i still go out somtimes (usually just to eat or run errands). It's just. The very thought of trying to make a friend makes me want to gouge my heart out. I'm terrified of talking with people and annoying them with my dense nature and clingy tendances. But the loneliness might actually end up killing me. It's pretty likely that if I keep walking down this path I'll kill myself. I might actually kill myself. I'm scared. I still want to live. but if this keeps going on any longer. I might die. oh god.
PrincessElette said on July 29, 2018
Look, I'm no doctor so take this with a pinch of salt, but it sounds to me like you may have a condition known as Avoidant Personality Disorder and should probably see a doctor and try medication. I know loneliness is the worst but I also know you have the strength to get through this. There will be people who care about you, and… I know I'm just a stranger on the internet but… I believe in you. You are not going to die.
Beans said on August 11, 2018
I’m the man who has been posting “man shouldn’t lie with another man” over and over all over peoples vent posts and making them myself. My stance on homosexuality stands, however, posting it with the intention of trolling and getting reactions from folks is not helping matters in regards to the homosexuals themselves and for the advancement of Christ’s Church. So, I humbly apologize to anyone who was distressed by my actions. I acted with the wrong motives. Look to see me no more.
DooDeeDoo said on August 20, 2018
I don’t need a fucking attitude when you ask for my help. I don’t need a baseless and logicless person on my fucking back telling me to shut up when all they do is just make everything more out of proportion than it needs to be. I finally have free time, and in such little span of time I have left of it, and I can’t even fucking enjoy it because some people are testing my patience.
Kadz said on August 26, 2018
I live with my grandma. I've lived here for nearly 5 years and my grandma and I have a great relationship. Well, had a great relationship. Her husband, my grandpa, has a lot of health issues. This year the doctors diagnosed him with early stages of dementia and Alzheimer disease. He has been very difficult to deal with this year as he is often frustrated and has become very cranky. It has gotten to the point that he has frequent outbursts of anger. We don't know how to help him or how to manage his frustrated/angry behaviour.
I am preparing to leave at the beginning of next year to start a new job. Grandma is worried about how she'll cope on her own next year with grandpa. I also started seeing someone this year. We are in a long-distance relationship and the only time we can talk is after 9pm because of work and the time difference. I have told Grandma a little bit about him, but I'm not the kind of person who just blabs about my boyfriend all the time. I don't tell her what we talk about on the phone, but she can see that I'm happy. She feels like I put up a wall whenever she asks about him. I can feel it too. I don't know why I do it because my grandma is very open-minded and caring. I guess there's always a part of me that is scared of her judgement.
It has obviously affected the relationship between my grandma and I. The other night she was so upset when she mentioned it to me. She cried and asked me why I don't tell her anything. She said she can see that I'm happy in my new relationship and she just wants to have a bit of that happiness. This made me more uncomfortable, and now I would rather not eve mention anything to do with my boyfriend or my relationship around my grandma. I can see that I've hurt her, but I don't see how suddenly telling her things about my relationship is going to fix her issues and her unhappiness.
I know it's selfish, but I can't wait until I can leave here next year. I just don't know how to deal with these issues.
LoudPreacher2018 said on September 8, 2018
If you don’t accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior you’re going to Hell.
“…it is appointed unto men once to die, but after this the judgment:”
??Hebrews? ?9:27? ?KJV??
“And whosoever was not found written in the book of life was cast into the lake of fire.”
??Revelation? ?20:15? ?KJV??
sad for you said on September 9, 2018
You're a horrible selfish bitch. You don't deserve to be happy if you're going to continue to act this way. The road you're on leads to a sad lonely place but you can't see that because you've been led astray by Satan. The few people who truly want good things for you have been trampled on and are turning away because you're becoming evil. It isn't too late to stop. I hope you see it but I fear it's too late for you. The devil has you now.
PeopleKindaSuck said on September 11, 2018
Can I just say arrogance is probably the worst vice in any person? It's honestly disgusting seeing someone act like they know everything when they don't know shit or act like they're some kind of big fucking deal or think they know exactly what they want in life in less than a year of discovering of said thing you apparently want to do for the rest of your life.
There's no problem having big expectations for yourself, or wanting to become better, but you're not actually improving yourself if you already think you're the shit. Get off your damn high horse.
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